The Philosophy of the Titanium Don

Be Here Now And Reap the Benefits

Being present in the moment positively empowers you. Memory is a strange thing. It tends to be colored, biased, and prejudiced by all sorts of factors, both internal and external.  The way you remember any given thing is imperfect. How you remember anything is unique and individual to you. This is in addition to how the people, places, and things of your life were situated. My memory of the space shuttle Challenger explosion as a middle-schooler in the ‘burbs of

Still Here? You Can Still Do Something

That’s more than you might realize. I know that we live in a ridiculous, disconcerting, sometimes scary timeline. Spend any time on social media, watching or reading the news, and the insanity can quickly be overwhelming. If you have any degree of empathy at all, you might find yourself feeling distraught and helpless. While it’s true that what we can do for the big picture issues is very little, that doesn’t mean we are powerless. You’re still here, which means

Being Self-Aware Makes You More Aware of the World

This is the key to gaining the control available to you in your life. How did we get here? When did kindness, compassion, and empathy become elements of weakness and other negatives to so many people? One of the biggest ironies of this idea is that most who are unkind, uncompassionate, and unempathetic demand to have kindness, compassion, and empathy given to them. They are so desperate for recognition and positive vibes related to it that they are deeply, deeply

Positivity Now? Yes, Now More Than Ever

The world needs all the genuine, nontoxic positivity it can get. No, I’m not deluded. And no, I am not in any way, shape, or form suggesting ignoring, disregarding, or pretending what’s going on out there isn’t happening. What I am suggesting is that we cannot put all our focus on negativity. Why? Because consciousness creates reality. The more we focus on the negative, the more attention that we give it, the more it grows, gains power, and dominates our

Making The World a Better Place Begins with Yourself

Make yourself better, make the world better. Less than a week into the new year, and already the madness has been seemingly turned up to 11. Really? Bad news on various fronts is how we start 2026? Here’s the biggest kicker about it: There’s nothing you and I can do. You and I can’t change bad decisions, violations of the Constitution, the uber-wealthy salivating at getting even more money and power, or the rest. We can do nothing about this.

Do You Reset Yourself with the New Year?

Some people use the New Year to implement change. Like it or not, the one and only constant in the entire universe is change. Change can, will, and does occur, whether you are ready for it or not. You frequently can control little to no of the change you experience. But not all change is outside of your control. When it comes to you and your life experiences, you have the power to choose to make changes. Specifically, changing who,

Thinking and Feeling for Yourself is an Act of Positivity

Too many people seem to prefer not thinking or feeling for themselves these days. It never ceases to amaze me how easily people let others think and feel for them. It’s as if the idea of thinking for yourself is inappropriate, challenging, and not at all worthwhile. If that’s not the case, then how else can you explain the idea of “woke” – as in awake and aware – being a bad thing? The problem with this is that nobody

Appreciation Always Appreciates

Given or received, appreciation goes a long way. This past weekend, I received recognition for certain things I do in my medieval reenactment society. The words of appreciation that went with that recognition got me thinking about how appreciation always appreciates. The recognition I received was for two things. First, for the work I do in teaching others how to do medieval rapier combat (fencing). As a student of the arte of defense, I also love teaching new people fencing

You Only Must Prove Yourself to Yourself

Make yourself a judgment-free zone. There is an idea permeating the collective consciousness that is, frankly, wrong. That’s the idea that we’re all in competition with one another. What this implies we’re competing for is utter bullshit. It starts with the competition for material things. That to be acceptable, to be worthy, you must have certain things. This car, that outfit, those kinds of items, and whatnot. Worse, however, is the utterly false implication that we’re in competition for the

The Approach You Take to Anything and Everything is Your Choice

You decide how you approach life, the universe, and everything. Let’s be blunt here. We live in some crazy, distressing, utterly uncertain times. How this is where we are is completely infuriating and scary. Getting out of this current collective consciousness is going to take a lot of work on the part of each of us, individually. You can’t think, feel, intend, or act for anyone else. Period. The only person you can control is yourself. You alone can know,