The Philosophy of the Titanium Don

The Approach You Take to Anything and Everything is Your Choice

You decide how you approach life, the universe, and everything. Let’s be blunt here. We live in some crazy, distressing, utterly uncertain times. How this is where we are is completely infuriating and scary. Getting out of this current collective consciousness is going to take a lot of work on the part of each of us, individually. You can’t think, feel, intend, or act for anyone else. Period. The only person you can control is yourself. You alone can know,

Thank You, Universe

Gratitude is always a force for good. I know that I’m incredibly fortunate. I have an amazing wife, a crazy but loving family, awesome friends, and acquaintances; I wouldn’t trade them for anything. A comfortable home, a great car, and amazing potential and possibilities available to me. I have amazing people, places, and things both tangible and intangible in my life that I’m deeply, hugely, tremendously thankful for. I’m not trying to brag, I just want to express gratitude. I’m

Stillness, Reflection, and Positivity

Ideas to deal with the madness of the world. I recently finished reading Stillness Is the Key by Ryan Holiday. Having recently completed Ego is the Enemy by Holiday, I was intrigued when this appeared on my Kindle screen. In Mr. Holiday, I have found a kindred spirit. Both of these books spoke to me in much the same way I strive to speak to you. Plain English, simple concepts, no promises or pretenses. Just a presentation of ideas that

It’s Not Really All Going to Shit

Apply practical mindfulness to see where you are and what you can do. Spend any time watching the news or scrolling through social media, and chances are you’ll feel awful. The latest surreal act on the part of the Trump administration, the not-so-Supreme Court’s support of their BS, and the spinelessness and corruption in Congress are just depressing and/or infuriating as fuck. If you spend any time at all focused on this, you probably feel like it’s all going to

When Life Hands You Lemons, Sometimes You Make Something Other Than Lemonade

Life seldom presents you with only one choice. There we were, sitting in the living room, chilling on the couch with the cats. The weekend was drawing to a close, and we were going to watch the Sunday night animated shows we enjoy. About five minutes in, the power goes out. That’s odd. Why is the power out? We look outside. Apart from the lamp on the side street beside the house being out, everything else appears to be working

Energy, Frequency, and Positivity

It’s all much more connected than we realize. I believe that everyone is unique from everyone else. No two people are alike, because nobody can be inside anyone else’s head, heart, or soul but their own. You alone are in your mind, your body, and your spirit. That means only you can have full knowledge of your health, wellness, and wellbeing. Whether physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual, you are the only one who experiences your life. Despite the individuality and

Right and Wrong Matter Less Than Choices Made

When you don’t choose, you cede your power. There are a lot of voices in the world telling you who, what, where, how, and why you should have, do, and be. Everywhere you turn, someone is going to tell you to do this, that, or the other thing. Be like this or suffer. Do like that or face pain. It’s intimidating, scary, and confusing. What’s the right choice? If I choose wrong, will I suffer, and how badly? For that

You Can Choose to See the Dark or Seek the Light

The decision is yours. Everywhere you turn, there’s doom and gloom. All across social media, new reports, conversations with friends and family, it’s like a cloud constantly hovering above you. None of this is normal. The sense of fear, uncertainty, and hopelessness dominating it all? This is not normal. Then, to complicate matters, finding the balance between knowledge and being informed versus oversharing and being inundated is always challenging. You can’t ignore what’s happening, wear blinders, and pretend this isn’t

Pause And Clear the Schmutz Off Your Glasses

A simple act with a deeper meaning. As I sit here, trying to figure out what to write about today, it occurs to me that the lenses of my blue blocker glasses are seriously smudged. How often do I notice that and ignore it? Today, I paused, grabbed the spray and cloths, and cleared the schmutz off my glasses. That’s better. These glasses I wear when I work at my computer don’t correct my vision. I only wear them to

Nothing Lasts Forever

That’s more positive than negative. We are living in a bizarre, uncertain, distressing world right now. Tons of progress made toward a more equal, diverse, inclusive, amazing world are being shredded by scared, greedy, uncertain, thoughtless people on many levels. It’s hard to find positivity in much of anything regarding the world at large. It’s hard to accept anything in your personal life that’s good without feeling guilty or selfish. Yet, truth be told, there’s almost nothing you can do