Perspective is Always Unique to You

Only you can ever know your head, heart, and soul. How you view life, the universe, and everything is unique. And I mean unique to you, and you alone. Yet it’s mind-numbing and incomprehensible to truly grasp what that means: there are around 8,000,000,000 (8 billion) unique, one-of-a-kind perspectives out there. Because of this truth, we find ourselves frequently in disagreement. I see the world this way; how in the hell do you see it that way? From our unique

Does It Matter What They Think of Me?

Short answer: No. Long answer: Read on! I’ve spent most of my life caring most about what other people think of me. What kind of impression do I make? Do they think ill or good of me? Am I a good person worth your time and attention, or a bad person to be shunned? Do I deserve love, attention, and affection, or should I be scorned, ignored, and distanced? This has driven my life since childhood. The incessant need to

Why Is It So Hard to Release These Feelings?

Resentment is a mix of multiple feelings that are not easy to release. I’m going to do some oversharing here. For a long time, I have consciously worked not to hold grudges or resentment. I’ve seen what grudges and resentment do to people. In short, no good comes of it. Then it came to my attention that I have a lot of resentment I’m holding. Wait, how’s that? I’ve been consciously working not to be resentful and hold grudges. So

Cleaning Out Your Subconscious Mind is Challenging

Who knew the subconscious held on to so much? Over the years, I’ve been in and out of therapy. I have been fortunate enough to have had some truly amazing therapists. Each has been unique, bringing a variety of ideas and approaches to help me work with the issues that impact my mental, emotional, and spiritual health. It’s too easy to look to physical health, wellness, and wellbeing. Hell, our society is veritably obsessed with the physical – looks, body

Acting on Releasing My Disbelief

Enough with the self-persecution already! The single most obnoxious skeptic in my life is me. The problem is, even with proof that this is an abundant universe and that I’ve manifested things into my life, I still fight heavy doubt. No, conscious reality creation does not work in a void. The Law of Attraction isn’t just hooky-spooky bullshit; it works – but not in a vacuum. There must be action taken. What it looks like will vary, of course, but

What Does it Mean to Stop Questioning and Just Be?

A new challenge on my path to be here now, more. I love learning. One of the driving forces in my life is my desire to gain more knowledge, to learn new things, to evolve my understanding. Much of what I know is largely useless. Trivia? Oh, do I have a head full of useless trivia. Also quotes from movies and TV shows, song lyrics, and the like. I love when I’m writing, and I come up to a question

Some Feelings You Can’t Put Into Words

You’re not alone in having inexplicable feelings impact you. I have no words to describe what I’m feeling at this moment. I think the issue is that there’s no single what or how to the feelings I’m currently experiencing. The trouble is, because I can’t express this, neither can I release it. A little backstory. Today, there was a gathering of specific individuals in my life that always comes with complexities, challenges, and stress. What’s more, it’s mostly subtle, a

Subtle Changes Produce Big Results

Sometimes it takes very little to do a lot. Change is the one and only constant in the universe. No matter who, what, where, how, or why you are, change will happen. For the most part, change is impartial, neutral, and simply occurs. It takes many forms and happens both insanely fast and ludicrously slow. When it comes to the big picture matters and the collective consciousness, you and I have little to no control over anything. As I frequently

Nontoxic Positivity Embraces Both Bad and Good Happenings

That’s because nothing is only positive. The word “positivity” has become fraught because it’s often applied toxically. The “power of positive thinking” is bandied about like the ultimate cure to what ails you, but it’s often shared incompletely. What that means is this: The idea that staying positive, focusing only on positivity, and denying, disregarding, and/or ignoring bad, negative things is the only way. Put on your rose-colored glasses, make sure the blinders are in place, and tiptoe through the

Paths Are Meant to Change and Evolve

Everything changes and evolves, after all. Life is seldom stagnant for long. Sure, you might get several years where nothing much changes, but small things can, will, and do. Change is inevitable because it’s the one and only constant in the universe. Everything, be it person, place, or thing, changes. The majority of that simply is, and is neither good nor bad. A lot of people find this hard to swallow. Some cling to what they know, the familiar, the

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