Explorations of Conscious Reality Creation, Mindfulness, Nontoxic Positivity, and More
Time to send the fear packing! I’m tired of living in fear. And in this instance, I’m not talking about the fear-based elements of this society. I’m talking about the fears that have kept me from being less than I know I can be. More than once in my life, I shrank away from doing something I believed I could/should do. Maybe I went halfway, maybe I started. But on too many occasions, I backed down, self-sabotaged, and/or allowed myself
Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. One of the most difficult things to deal with in the world today is how many people want us to live small. A relatively tiny percentage of the so-called “wealthy” and “powerful” care for only what advances them. The rest of us are expected to be grateful for the table scraps they’re “generously” tossing us. The messages are overwhelming. Do this, that, or the other thing, in the way we insist, or else you’re
Something in my head, buried deep, is holding me back. There are two reasons I write these explorations into mindfulness, nontoxic positivity, conscious reality creation, and the like. The first is to share these ideas, put the notions out into the universe in plain language so that I can help others discover a different approach to life, the universe, and everything. Too many forces in the world want to keep us small, and anything I can do to address this
Awareness is an individual inside job. Genuine, nontoxic positivity is relatively easy to find. Unfortunately, real positive things are easily eclipsed by – *waves around, inarticulately, at the current world situation* – all of this. Some weeks, it’s especially hard to write about this, because various and sundry things keep it hidden and make it look disingenuous and false. I love watching people. Seeing how people are, their body language, expressions, how they carry themselves, and such, is utterly fascinating.
This is not something to be done lightly. I’ve been in and out of therapy most of my life. It began after my parents’ divorce when I was 5 or 6. Over the years, I’ve seen a wide variety of psychologists and psychiatrists. Some have been incredibly helpful, some less so. But good therapists have helped me understand myself and the world I live in more clearly mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually. Mental health is too easily taken for granted.
This is positive, despite the idea that the opposite is true. Some people cannot admit to ever being wrong. Similarly, you probably know someone who knows a lot, and/or a little, about seemingly everything. Still, for all that you can and do know, what you don’t know doesn’t make you less. How much is there to know? So much. And when you are from different parts of the world, you have different bases of knowledge to work from. There is
Take comfort in the fact that nothing is set in stone. It’s hard not to look at the big picture of the world around us and not feel concern. This isn’t helped by the bombardment and overwhelm of stories about ongoing atrocities and awfulness internationally and domestically. You can quickly lose hope, especially if you doomscroll on social media. There is very little you can do about the big picture world. Most of it is far beyond you and your
They just don’t tend to make the news. It’s all too easy to look at the world and the people in it and think the worst. Like everywhere you turn, you learn about someone doing something terrible. The latest shooting, crime, greedy billionaire, or similar awful human is paraded before you on the news, social media, and so on. Looking at the big picture, and the world of politics, big business, and celebrity, bad people doing bad things appear to
Because that way lies madness. Everywhere you turn, especially across social media, the narrative loudly screams about “US” vs “THEM”. The emphasis on the extremes and how “we” need to protect ourselves from “they” is utterly out of hand. When all is said and done, no matter what divisive label you apply, people aren’t so radically different. Have you ever met anyone who doesn’t want to have fairness, compassion, and empathy in their life? I haven’t. These are universal desires
There’s a line between concern, worry, and how you let it impact you. Unless you’re living under a rock, you’re probably being impacted by the crazy happenings around the world. Governments committing atrocities at home and abroad, the greedy harming people and the environment alike, and a disturbing increase in maligning the kind, compassionate, and empathetic. Spend any time on social media, and you’ll be quickly bombarded with all kinds of terrible, awful, negative things. Is it any wonder so
