Sometimes the Answers Raise More Questions

Learning is essential to life. Have you ever had a big, burning question you felt an overwhelming desire to answer? Did you take any and every path you could to find the answer to it? Then, did the answer lead to new questions? Congratulations, welcome to the Human Condition. For as long as human beings have been capable of logic and reason, we’ve asked questions to understand the universe around us. Lots of things can be explained by science. Thanks

You Cannot Bend Others to Your Will

That’s a very, very good thing. One of the most daunting aspects of the world today is how many people want you to bend to their will. Give them what they want, to hell with what you want. Accept mediocrity, take your place among so-called lessers, and don’t think for yourself. Some people resist such things actively. Some passively. Others, not at all. Because of how fear is weaponized, many people allow themselves to be the victims of a religion,

What Do You Do When You Feel Small?

Things happen that make you feel things and question your path along the way. I recently attended the Farpoint sci-fi con as an author guest. This was my 5th year doing this. As an author guest, I am given an hour to set up a table to sign and sell books. What I enjoy most, however, is that I get to take part in multiple discussion panels on a wide range of topics, including fandom, science, movies and TV, and

Be Here Now And Reap the Benefits

Being present in the moment positively empowers you. Memory is a strange thing. It tends to be colored, biased, and prejudiced by all sorts of factors, both internal and external.  The way you remember any given thing is imperfect. How you remember anything is unique and individual to you. This is in addition to how the people, places, and things of your life were situated. My memory of the space shuttle Challenger explosion as a middle-schooler in the ‘burbs of

The Unexpected is Unavoidable

Things happen because that’s how the Universe works. At the end of 2025, I had an awful experience. I developed an abscess on my inner thigh that became infected. After a day of discomfort and spiking a fever, this sent me to the ER, which in turn put me in the hospital for 2 days of IV antibiotics. That was unexpected. But it happened. And I’m mostly recovered from the experience now. This past weekend, we got more snow than

Still Here? You Can Still Do Something

That’s more than you might realize. I know that we live in a ridiculous, disconcerting, sometimes scary timeline. Spend any time on social media, watching or reading the news, and the insanity can quickly be overwhelming. If you have any degree of empathy at all, you might find yourself feeling distraught and helpless. While it’s true that what we can do for the big picture issues is very little, that doesn’t mean we are powerless. You’re still here, which means

Don’t Let Fear Rule Your Life

Fear can keep you alive, but it can also falsely limit you. Long ago, when the human race was hunter-gatherer packs roaming the land, fear kept them alive. Back then, fear was almost entirely related to threats to life and limb. Fear of lions and other large animals, falling off cliffs, fast-running waters, storms, and other matters that could lead to death. In this form, fear kept the human race alive. Over time, as humans formed communities, started farming the

Being Self-Aware Makes You More Aware of the World

This is the key to gaining the control available to you in your life. How did we get here? When did kindness, compassion, and empathy become elements of weakness and other negatives to so many people? One of the biggest ironies of this idea is that most who are unkind, uncompassionate, and unempathetic demand to have kindness, compassion, and empathy given to them. They are so desperate for recognition and positive vibes related to it that they are deeply, deeply

How Do You Know What You Can Control Vs What You Can’t Control?

The answer is simple. So simple it seems incorrect. Spend any time online, and you are quickly overwhelmed by the craziness of the world. In just a few seconds on any social media platform, you will probably see something about world politics, the increasingly disturbing American government, friends struggling with job security, family issues, and the like. All things that you probably desire to do something about. But you can’t. You, yourself, can do nothing about the Russia/Ukraine conflict, Trump

Positivity Now? Yes, Now More Than Ever

The world needs all the genuine, nontoxic positivity it can get. No, I’m not deluded. And no, I am not in any way, shape, or form suggesting ignoring, disregarding, or pretending what’s going on out there isn’t happening. What I am suggesting is that we cannot put all our focus on negativity. Why? Because consciousness creates reality. The more we focus on the negative, the more attention that we give it, the more it grows, gains power, and dominates our